I need SERIOUS relationship help and I don't know what to do?

You had indeed spelled out everything you need to know. 1. Hot tempered(cause fear and anxiety in you), 2. Too reserve(hates any social or extra-curricular activities), 3. Ignores your love language(cannot make you happy), 4. Demands satisfaction even at your detriment(he is very selfish). 5. Timidly sticks to one job(lazy). These are the ABC of the man you are leaving with. If you are not legally married to him, why swallow the whole ****! Your situation will soon wear you out, and you will look far older than your age. Please in the name of God, quit the relationship immediately.